An open letter to my congressman on Memorial Day, 2009
Dear Congressman Henserling.
I am writing to you on Memorial Day, 2009 after spending time at the grave side of Army Spc. Heath Pickard of Palestine, a fatherless young man who went to Frankston High School with three of my sons and spent much of his young life living at our home, eating dinner with us, having his birthdays with us, and being very much a son to my wife Donna and I. With me this day to honor Heath were my sons Airman Robert Rainone of the 34th Combat Communication Squadron at Tinker AFB and Pvt. Raymond Rainone of 3rd Battalion, 144 Infantry, Texas Army National Guard, Palestine unit. Missing from this group were sons SSgt. Christopher B. Rainone of the 136th Airlift Wing, Texas Air National Guard, at Carswell JRB and Sgt. Gabriel Rainone now of 3rd Battalion, 144th Infantry, Texas Army National Guard. Previously, Gabriel earned the Combat Infantry Badge, which is awarded only to infantrymen who have seen significant action, as a M-240 gunner in the Army’s 3rd ID, and spent all of 2005 stationed in Kamalaya, Iraq. I mention my military family not because I want your admiration or thanks, they deserve the thanks, not I, rather I want you to understand that when a father sends his sons into combat, to be responsible for the protection of this country, he expects that his government will fully reflect that responsibility back to them, to there fellows and to their families.
I am writing to you as a very disturbed taxpayer. I am not disturbed by the spending of President Obama, nor am I in the least bit critical of anything he has done so far. He has been a breath of fresh air, and I believe that he has restored dignity to the office and to this country. No, I am disturbed by the our unwillingness to fully face up to the damage that we have caused the men and women of our armed services, those who have served with valor, been wounded, permanently disabled and/or disfigured. I acknowledge that they are given a degree of care, but it is obvious that they are abandoned in their rehabilitation and recovery. Sunday Morning, the CBS New Program on Sunday morning did a segment on a soldier whose face was destroyed in a IED attack in Iraq. The segment was about the group, not a governmental group but a group of volunteers who work to find funding for the continuing plastic surgery that is required to bring some semblance of “humanness” to their features. It was stated that they have to do this because our government will provide only ONE THIRD of the cost for these surgeries. During the Memorial Day broadcast last night on PBS, the most important figure was an Army Sergeant who lost half of his brain in a grenade attack in Iraq. In this case it wasn’t the lack of care that was inadequate, it was the lack of support for his mother and sister. These two gave up everything to provide the loving care that the government could not provide. They gave up their home, their lives; they went hungry, and had to depend on donations for food, bare subsistence living so that they could give care for his survival, because the government would provide nothing for the care giving family, the family doing the job that somehow did not figure into the cost of this war.
Frankly, I am appalled. This has obviously made me angry enough to write this letter, and it will be just the first in my effort to find out how a nation who asked so much could begrudge those young men and women and their families so little. I know that you personally bear the weight of waging these wars with great empathy and carefully weighed the vote to allow the President to send our children into combat, but perhaps it is because, unlike so many of us out here, many in congress have not sent a child into combat or even served in the military, that they did not and do not fully understand the REAL cost of the war. I would like to believe that you all will eventually realize that the cost of sending the children of others into harm’s way goes beyond, gun, bullets, tanks and planes- the mechanism by which we bring the war to our enemy, we must also pay the price for those that come back from the war whatever their condition. I am not sure that in the rush to engage in this war, anyone really understood the pain-mental, physical and fiscal that it was really going to cost. Perhaps this denial of full restitution is some way of cost reduction, but it is certainly not facing our duties. I don’t know, but as the father of sons who have been and are again going into harm’s way, I insist the we as a people own up to our responsibilities to all who have been wounded, disfigured and disabled in the service of this country, regardless of the time it takes, regardless of the cost.
Sincerely,
Michael D. Rainone





